18 year old dating 15 year old wrong
If they can't figure that out without your help.........that's very sad and I hope they're ready for their 15yr old to get pregnant by this man because that's what's next. But there are too many times, parents that forbid relationships and it does not work out that way.. Who on earth would want to date an almost 30 year old man while in high school? And what grown woman would want to date an almost 30 year old man that dates, barely teen girl, Yuck? Instead, I would suggest this girls parents meet with both of them and let them know that if they want to see each other it has to be in their home and with the parents there.. I would also let this man know, they need to do a background check on him immediately, so they will need his Drivers license and his social security card.. and that the girls parents want to meet his parents.. If he gives the excuse they live far away, have him give them their phone number and address and call them in front of him.. If he says they passed away, tell him they are sorry to hear that, but the background check will need to also confirm this.so this is a way to let the daughter will be able to see the real person this man is.. I know it is against the law for them to have sex, but not to be friends.. Then each time he is in their home, have set times for when he needs to leave. They also need to inform the school that this is what is going on and how the parents are going to handle this..I would also call the police and notify them of the situation.
I'm sorry but I think I would have to approach the 28 year old pervert and tell him to stay away from my daughter or that I would cut his balls off and hang them from the ceiling.
Tell him to go mess around with other girls his OWN age that would be mature enough to handle all the things involved with dating. It may not be sexual NOW, but that doesn't mean it's not heading that way.
He does not have their permission to take her anywhere in his vehicle.. He also should not be allowed to pick her up from school without their permission, EVER. She should have a school night curfew of 10 during the school nights and for weekends. She has to complete her work by the time he comes over. The school can only make sure this man is not on campus and does not have permission to take her out of school AT ANY TIME.. Knowing the situation I would automatically call in the authorities.
Then the parents need to get out every board (bored) game they own, every video and get used to spending time in the room with or the room right next to where theses 2 are going to be.. I would not have any conversation with this "man" and tip him onto what is about to happen.
The girl may think this, but I guarantee you the guy is grooming her. It's illegal and sick, the police must be involved. Kick the man in the balls and never allow them to see each other.
That she's young and inexperienced about what she wants from life and what is out there in the world. If he is in love with her, then he can wait to date her after she is much older. How could this child's parents allow her to "just be friends" and "go on dates" with a 28 YEAR OLD MAN!!!?There is no dating between a 28 year old and a 15 year old. If your friend doesn't have the courage to shut it down.You must step in and call the authorities from the police to child protective services. If I knew more I would be making the calls right now.If they aren't having sex yet, then he is grooming her for the next level. The next thing that will happen is that she isn't allowed to see her friends or go out and have any fun that doesn't include him.The worst thing about this, HM, is that she will now have it in her head that she is only interested in older men.That having an older boyfriend probably makes her feel more confident about herself and more desirable. Then I'd explain to her that she is an easy target for him because she is young and easily manipulated because of her lack of experience and savvy. She hasn't attained them and she is currently in a lesson teaching relationship that may have bad consequences. I'd have her read all of the responses you receive. I think your friend is just as messed up as the 28 year old man. It doesn't matter what the 15yr old says is happening or not happening.......is a child and she's being manipulated by a sick in the head adult male.