Plus, if you and your crush are in the friend zone, or you aren't going on dates just yet, this hints that you could be looking for more.

It also opens the door for them to suggest that you come over, um, maybe later tonight?

They'll be dying to find out."When do I get to see you again?

"Why it works: Not only does this let your crush know that you're thinking about them and enjoy spending time with them, but it also gives them an exciting jolt at the anticipation of meeting up again in person (preferably sometime soon).

First off, you need to suss out whether or not your crush is at least mildly interested in you before you blow up their phone."You know your crush is receptive to flirting if he or she is responsive," says Barbara Greenberg Ph D, a clinical psychologist who specializes in family and relationship issues. Look into the eyes of the one you are flirting with.

They speak volumes."If you're mostly limited to texting or online messaging, Dr. I put together some tried-and-true text messages to send when you want to flirt but haven't started sexting yet.

Greenberg confirms what many of us already know: More than likely, your crush is into you if they carry on the conversation and respond without too much of a lag time. (But if you're already there, here's how to kick the conversation up a notch.)While we're arguably more in control of and confident about our sexuality than ever, there's still so much we don't know about female arousal.

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Let them know you're not taking "I don't know, what do you want to do?

" as an answer."I mean, how can you resist this face?

Check out more here."I have so much to do, but I keep getting distracted thinking about you."Why it works: Whether or not you're actually super busy, let your crush know that they're on your mind, even when you're supposed to be thinking of something else.

Feel free to follow it up with a compliment — a little flattery never hurt anyone."What are you passionate about?

We all know texting into the wee hours of the morning can get pretty open — take a chance and ask your crush to spill.