Moreover, Japan has tremendously developed throughout the years politically and socially.

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Perhaps due to the lack of high dedication to religion, Japanese people tend to be very free with their choices (just as Nietzsche or Jean-Paul Sartre describe it).

Many people believe, however, that this tolerance occurs due to tatemae and honne contrast.

Rebecca: I wasn’t so attracted to Japanese men but now after living here for three years I would say I definitely am. Christa: I’ve always been attracted to Japanese men, even when I was young, so I did some research before I came here and I saw that generally they are interested but they’re very shy about approaching women so you may need to approach them.

So now when I go home I immediately look for the nearest Asian guy like ‘Hey! Christa: I was with a girlfriend in Shibuya and two men approached us on the street and we went out for drinks. *Laughter* Rebecca: Exactly, each time that’s happened to me the guy has been pretty hammered.

However, the labor system in Japan after WWII with the permanent employment has made it very difficult for previously employed women to re-enter the labor force (especially the same company they used to work at).

In addition, the childcare and elderly care leave accommodations are not very beneficial and certainly not boosting any means of an incentive to have more kids (which is a problem for Japan considering the low birth rate).

Nonetheless, Japan’s current citizens’ mindset has shaped to cope with the latest changes and here is what to expect when dating a Japanese woman: characteristics Spontaneity is definitely a feature that couples love in a relationship, however, with Japanese women in particular, you have to plan most hangouts in advance due to their busy schedules with planned hours of part-time jobs or hangouts with other friends or family.

They usually have a little calendar in their purse where all their plans for a month or more are planned in advance.

On the other hand, many develop exceptional writing skills that are way higher than the conversational one.