The app has easy browsing and communication tools that help you connect with local users. "It's a hip, visually oriented site, which tends to attract daters in their twenties and thirties." Organized like most social media sites, Zoosk is easy to navigate and explore.

But first, let me add a disclaimer: everything that I’m going to discuss with respect to mindset versus age is just a set of general guidelines designed to be a useful framework.

But now that I am older and have dated a few women in their late 20s and 30s, I’ve found that perhaps the men who have written about this phenomenon in the past have actually underestimated how stark these differences can get.

Unfortunately, without a full membership you can't respond to or block other users, use the chat function or see who has viewed your profile.

If you upgrade to a paid account, guarantees you'll find someone special within six months of membership.

So, if you're looking for a long-term, serious relationship, e Harmony might be the place for you.

(Unless, you are gay or your membership is inexplicably rejected, which happens.) Regardless of it's discriminating taste, e Harmony is doing something right.

However, it does not let you respond to other members until you pay for a membership, then you can wink and chat your heart out.

There have been complaints that Zoosk sometimes matches you with members that are not a geographic match.

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics.

But out of the thousands of dates that I’ve been on, these trends are definitely what I’ve seen in the majority of cases.

Still, e Harmony gives users access to thousands of detailed profiles of high caliber matches.