Jesse and Kong join us to talk about why their brand of pickup is different, why it’s not what you think and how Simple Pickup’s techniques carry over into every aspect of your life.All of that and more on episode 374 of The Art of Charm.

For example if you have a regular barista you see in the morning ask that person what their favorite drink is and then try it.

You’ll be surprised by how good it feels to simply talk to strangers, and it’ll help your game with the ladies too because you’ll be much more versed in the art of creating connection. Jordan Harbinger has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe, and the Middle East, and speaks several languages.

Doing so, making yourself laugh and lighten up before doing anything you perceive as “high pressure” like talking to a pretty girl, is one of their suggestions.

Whether you want to approach an attractive woman or you’re going into an interview for the job of your dreams, they suggest doing something you enjoy and have fun doing to take the pressure off.

If you can make yourself laugh you’ll help your mind see the “high pressure” situation as much less so.

Another suggestion they have on the topic of talking to women is to take baby steps. Who do you see every day but don’t chat with or haven’t gotten to know?

Marni shares with us her best tips on approaching women, having great conversations, flirting with women, and being a much more attractive man.

If you’re wondering what you can do right now to instantly become better with women and improve your dating life today, check this episode out now!

They give more advice and suggestions on today’s show, but they want to be sure to leave you with their motto: Always be giving value, always be having fun! If you enjoyed this session of The Art of Charm Podcast, let the guys of Simple Pickup know by clicking on the link below and sending them a quick shout out on Twitter: Simple Pickup web site Simple Pickup You Tube channel Project Go web site Simple Pickup on Twitter The Art of Charm bootcamps You’ll also like: -The Art of Charm Toolbox -Best of The Art of Charm Podcast Wanna leave a comment? He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war zones, and been kidnapped -- twice.