I know one woman who was told by an “expert” to wait 10 dates before sleeping with the man she was dating. Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. And if you can’t handle the emotional consequences of making an occasional mistake, you probably shouldn’t sleep with anyone until you’re in a committed relationship. “Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if hes interested in YOU or in SEX.” Excellent point and one to never forget.

I repeat: Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. This has been my personal policy for the past three years – no committed relationship, no sex – and it’s worked very well for me.

No doubt about it: The first time a woman beds down with a guy she’s crazy about is an exciting and special time. Whatever a woman’s decision, we had to wonder: Does the double standard still exist today? They push women for sex, then blame them for having sex.

Text formulas range from the basic “Curiosity Text” which drags attention to you like a magnet to the amazing “Text Massage” technique where you learn to use texting to give your special someone a “virtual massage” where they swear they can feel your hands on them from miles or continents away.

The next time he's super stressed, fill the tub with hot water and offer to hop in and massage his tense muscles.

Reason enough to tell him you appreciate his fixing your PC, replacing lightbulbs, killing spiders, and all the other tasks guys take on for us.

Bro-bonding time is ridiculously important to guys, and not coming off as controlling or clingy whenver he wants to meet up with them will impress the hell out of him..maybe make him want to cut the night short to come back to you.

Give me a few minutes of your time today and I promise to get to the bottom of why a guy doesn’t text you back and… Men are not the best with their phone skills when it comes to an attractive woman such as yourself.

Keep that in mind and expect anything and everything.In fact, this is the way MOST of my relationships have started.But then, I’ve always been determined not to be hypocritical when a woman has the same lack of morals I do.I The sex question is a popular one because it comes up in every dating situation. Turn sex into a reward for good behavior and time put-in and you’re missing the entire point.However, there’s no set timetable or finite number of dates that will let you know when it’s time to give it up. That’s what you get for playing by a made-up set of rules. As a woman, your job is not to come up with an arbitrary number of dates, like the U. coming up with a pull out date for our soldiers in Iraq. Being newly back on the dating scene I’ve been wrestling with this as not only a personal moral issue but also wanting to know other perspecitves. bet you’re a “master text-er.” You can whip out your phone faster than any of your guy friends and you know how to use it.