Figure out what type of girl you’re dealing with, then go from there. If she’s not interested, she’ll make it known to you clearly. If you can’t get any, or she’s slippery as an eel, move on or play on.

One day she’s warm–she flirts, she laughs and responds well, and acts like she’s really interested. Now tell me who wouldn’t get confused with girls sending mixed signals. Why does a girl make it complicated; if she like you, what’s with all the games? I’ll tell you what, there are a couple of reasons, and maybe you did something wrong.

Everything seems to be going well with this girl; you feel like you have a chance with her, and it seems like you’re both enjoying each other. Maybe you were indecisive or too slow or you missed your chance, your window of opportunity, or you keep waiting for the “right” moment.

She’s the girl who likes the attention men gives her.

She’s got a lot of guys circling around her, her adoring fans.

Have you ever been sure you knew exactly what she wanted, only to get the complete opposite reaction from her upon doing what is was you thought she wanted?

Basically, all her signs pointed one way, when she really wanted you to go in a completely different direction.

And every thing seems to happen that gets in the way of her getting together with you–her friend’s in town, her cat is sick, she has to get up early. Who’s this girl who replaced that warm and fun-to-be-with girl you used to know?

”And now she doesn’t really know if you like her or not, so she’ll pull back a little and see how you act. She won’t put herself out there in the open where she’ll be an easy target.

When it comes to understanding men—and their interest level in you—do you need a translator?

We asked the top body-language experts about men's most confusing mixed signals and found that it's not what he says but , says it's not much different when humans do it.

You can always handle the problem by starting a conversation about it, but you can also use more indirect ways to see if the person is actually interested in you.