Foxxi, the therapist on call, answers the phone, and Miky invites her over for a home visit.

After setting up her massage table, Foxxi asks her client to strip, and Miky obliges, revealing perky tits and a round ass barely covered by a skimpy black thong.

She has told me that she would rather be with me than him. And she’s struggling with how she can walk in and just destroy his world. It actually amuses me a bit to see such certainty and judgment from some of the commenters who have no idea about the details of my situation. Like Robert Browning’s “The Last Duchess,” the narrative reveals more about the speaker than the “duchess.” Your filters reveal your experiences and biases but have nothing to do with me and my situation. After she’s had a few transitional months to herself, I’ll join her there and our life together will officially begin. Her family is starting to accept the way things are. I’ve been essentially living with her for about 6 months. I totally realize that we went about things entirely the wrong way. However, this may be a case of “all’s well that ends well.” I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. I guess the reason I wrote this in the beginning , and the reason I’ve continued to update it, is that I know I’m not the only one to experience this. Reading some of the comments, I realize that we all have our own filters in place and may be incapable of being objective about any of it.

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On the surface, it seems like EVERYTHING in my relationship is going my way. She has already told me that when she thinks about the future, she is thinking about me/us and not him. And we are making all the necessary life changes to be ready for our life together. After a couple of months of her living alone, I began staying over more and more. He is finally in a new relationship, too, so that may help everyone involved move forward. My lady and I get to be with the love of our lives. My hope is that it helps open eyes on any side of the equation. you’ll remember something I’ve shared here and have a slightly different perspective.

We see each other 4-5 times per week (sometimes more) for a few hours each time. Our emotional connectedness is at an all time high and gets stronger by the day. He is in a new relationship with someone who thought she was too old to find love again. It was a brutal situation that I would not survive again. But as soon as you recognize the situation for what it is, back up.

We’ve talked about what that looks like (no contact or just greatly reduced contact? Ostensibly it is to give her time to tend to the details of unraveling her current long-term relationship.

At this point, it appears that things are better all the way around, for all concerned. I keep updating this in hopes someone who reads it will gain a little more insight and receive the benefit of my experience. I realize that life is messy and sometimes we get ahead of ourselves. Especially your future relationship should you choose to move forward with it. We take no responsibility for the content on any webpage which we link to, please use your own discretion while surfing the links.So, I am a single man in love with a married woman. My affair partner has begun individual counseling to try to find some clarity regarding our situation. UPDATE #3: Well, she’s been divorced for about 9 months now. He has someone who is happy to be with him and shares his values. But I was determined to document the experience to share with anyone else who may be feeling the things I was a couple of years ago. And maybe, just maybe, the next time something like this comes up… He’s still the one who hears that familiar intimacy in her voice when she’s talking about the details of daily life. Add to the fact that new years eve found them in NYC for the ball drop; another one of her “bucket list” experiences that she, yet again, ticked off with him. I missed something else that she will remember for the rest of her life. You just have to take it one step at a time and give all parties involved time to process the new paradigm and readjust their presuppositions. Granted, they were with several of our mutual friends. We’ve discussed “taking a break” after January (which will still give us time to experience some things we already had planned). Everyone involved, on either side of the equation, is involved in the journey together whether they like it or even acknowledge it. Granted, she told me a month ago that there had been no desire or intimate activity since she met me. He’s the one driving her to do her shopping and then carrying her bags while she shops. The situation is much more nuanced and sophisticated than it would appear some of the commenters are able to process. Handling an emotionally difficult situation with grace and elegance rather than clumsy self-absorption requires care and precision. In order to come on the other side of the experience with your self-esteem intact and any sense of dignity will require patience and fortitude. Anyone who looks at an affair with a simplistic “black and white” filter is doing a disservice to the human spirit…