Frustrating waiting for call dating
I am glad you checked up too now you know there is nothing there for you to pursue. Even if he gets back to you after his trip do not reply to him. I am sorry you are disappointment but better to know now at least it won't ruin your weekend wondering why you have not heard from him. I have been good at this lately and not taking things as personally. I could tell there was a connection of some kind and his body language showed it.
He talked about some of the women he was meeting who really didn't try to get to know him and just seemed that they were checking off boxes.
That the date wasn't about just meeting up with someone.
We just weren't a match and he may have gotten his hopes up. I think you're worrying more because you really felt a connection. I'm lucky in that the guy I'm seeing is in contact daily. I would have contacted him the next day, just to say hi, how was your day?
But I told him when he asked for the second date and didn't leave him hanging. Notice often people will accuse others of mistakes they're doing themselves. Now, you have rejected a guy or guys because things didn't click and it would be a wonderful world if everyone was open and honest but that isn't always the case. I really suck at this "don't text and wait X amount of time game." I like him, and I think he should know. Mine is busy with kids and job as well, and I'm feeling a little pushed aside and insecure, but I really like this guy.
I don't think I did and he certainly acted like he enjoyed the conversation, but who knows. I feel bad because I rejected someone early this week. It didn't work out this time, but maybe next time it will be a different story... Even though it was a no for tomorrow, I don't regret checking on it. But these things always make me question if it was something I did and he sat and thought about it.
We just weren't a match and he may have gotten his hopes up. He talked about some of the women he was meeting who really didn't try to get to know him and just seemed that they were checking off boxes.
But I am so frustrated because of reading things so wrong. Now, you have rejected a guy or guys because things didn't click and it would be a wonderful world if everyone was open and honest but that isn't always the case. The grind part is thinking one thing and being let down. I actually cancelled this morning cause I just didn't have it in me and rescheduled for another day.
If this isn't something that goes further, then I just just don't know. If the guy has rejected you or is going to, it sucks but you have been on both ends and know how it feels on both ends. I am trying to be more true to myself in this process.
He said that is what turned him off to them and OLD in general. I wouldn't take it too personally, you never know what is happening in his life and with his children. Try not to make up reasons when you really don't know what happened.