I think they like the juxtaposition of hard and soft.

I was surprised because we’d never talked about my size being an issue.

And a lot of men who are attracted to plus-size women love the feeling of weight.

Some jerk once IMed and asked, “Are there really guys out there who are attracted to you?

” Friends of mine were setting one another up on dates but not me.

Li says the app aims to "show that you don't need to have a low BMI [body mass index] to be attractive" and by attracting users who are signing up because they already love curvy women, that sounds highly likely, not to mention overdue.

In light of yesterday’s controversial piece by Maura Kelly, I’m posting a story by Jennifer Abramowitz (as told to me), an amazing plus-size woman who recently spoke openly to me about her experience dating in New York City.

It means they want to be with somebody who likes to eat, who they can feed and would consider gaining a lot of weight. But I think there’s a fine line between someone who’s a fetishist and someone who’s not.

I grapple with the term because what’s the difference between a fetish and a preference?

No matter how many magazines start featuring plus-size women, in mainstream white culture, a woman who’s heavy isn’t considered as attractive as a woman who’s not.