Spencer puts it, if you purchase the book now you can get a head start on Valentine’s Day 2016. Why take on a subject already so heavily populated?

Kel Spencer: I think relationship advice is heavily populated, but relationship advice that can actually help I think is rare.

If you like a man, encourage him with eye contact, a warm smile or a flirt online to let him know you’re interested.

Growing up, we weren’t taught who men really are and what makes them tick.

I know I wasn’t and in the past, I made huge mistakes that ended up emasculating men.

Tip #6 – When you’re dating an over 50’s man, don’t place demands on how he must be or what he has to do in order to date you.

Men tell me again and again how much they dislike profiles of women who demand nothing less than the best restaurant or a certain salary to date them.

The key is learning to come into your true feminine power…one that compliments a man’s masculine power. On the big screen, they show us men like Tom Cruise’s character in the movie, .

When you do, he’ll jump through hoops to make you happy. Think back to when he professed his love with the romantic words, “You complete me.” Real men show you their love by cutting your grass and giving you their coat when you’re cold.Tip #5 – Don’t criticize the job a man is doing for you.He’s doing his best and yes, you may be able to do it better or faster than he can but don’t… If he’s offered to do something for you, allow him to do it his way.These tips have made a huge difference in my both my life and the lives of my clients. This means don’t expect a man to act like a woman or you’re guaranteed to be disappointed.Tip #2 – Men over 50 are very masculine and they love when you bring this trait out in them.There are a lot of cliches, blanket pieces of advice and misguided opinions out there.